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Question: I have really thin walls in my apartment and it's easy to hear my neighbors' TVs, arguments, or even their showers. It's also easy to hear one neighbor in particular having really loud, passionate sex.  At first it was embarrassing, and maybe even a bit annoying, but recently it's become a really big turn on and I end up pleasuring myself every time I hear them go at it (twice a week, sometimes more).  Maybe it's because I haven't had sex with anyone in a while or maybe I'm just sick.  I don't know.  I've never been a voyeur before and I'm nervous I'm developing some new kink I won't be able to get rid of when I do finally start having sex again.  I guess what I'm saying is, is this behavior normal?

Answer: Let me put your mind at rest by letting you know that you are not sick and your behavior is natural and normal.  Who wouldn’t get turned on by hearing noises of passionate sex?  Actually, this experience has probably expanded your sexual horizon so think of it as a gift, weird, as it may seem.  When you do find the right person to have sex with, tape record your lovemaking and then play it back.  In the meantime, continue to pleasure yourself without feeling any guilt and remember that masturbation is good for your health.  Masturbation is a major stress reliever.  It keeps your sexual organs in good working order.  For men it recharges the penis with tissue nourishing oxygen and empties built up secretions in the prostate.  In women it spring-cleans the uterus. Sort of like a sneeze, cleaning out your nose.  In the meantime, triple the pleasure you give yourself by using the Trigasm Vibrator a sex tool I invented myself to arouse three erogenous zones at the same time.