Dear Dr. Ava
Q & A Single Men
by Dr. Ava Cadell
Question: I have a secret fetish that I really enjoy, but I must admit it totally baffles me why I have it. I would be ashamed to tell any of even my closest friends about it. Okay, here goes – basically, I love watching internet pictures and videos of bikini-clad girls sitting on or stepping on bugs (crickets, cockroaches, etc.). I only enjoy watching girls step on bugs if they’re wearing high heel shoes. What in the hell is going on here?
Answer: High heels and pain, suffering and gore in any form are symbols of sadomasochism. Men who fantasize about women in high heels usually love to be dominated by women. The American Journal of the Crush Freaks describes the crush fetish of bugs as “Giantessophilis.” Insects become a fetish object for the crush freak, who wishes to be the insect on the ground, under a woman’s foot. Watching or visualizing the act of a woman crushing insects can be sexually arousing and the bigger the foot the better. Vilencia, publisher of the journal says, "The feeling is that of letting go, powerless, helpless, tiny, small, and bug like. Wanting to see a female crush something with her foot, longing to be a helpless insect as you squirm around under her foot sole as she squishes your body into grease." Two other magazines cater to crush freaks: Squish! and In Step, a foot fetish magazine. Now that you know what your secret fetish means, it’s up to you to decide whether or not you want to continue fantasizing about being crushed like a bug by women in high heels. Listen to my CD, Hot Lips, and let something else turn you on.