Dr. Ava’s Safer Sex Menu
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Appetizers:
- Saucy phone-sex
- A spicy striptease
- Savory kissing
- A luscious body massage
- Scrumptious body licking
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Main Course:
- Mouth watering mutual masturbation
-Tasty cleavage fornication
-Juicy oral delights with a condom or rubber dam
-Steamy sex with vibrators (Not shared)
-Delicious penetration with an FDA approved condom
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Desserts:
-Sugary caresses
-Syrupy love bites served gently
-Sweet body pressing
-Warm blows of breath
-Creamy cuddles
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Oral sex is NOT a safe sex activity
Although oral sex is safer than vaginal and anal sex, it is still possible to contract STD’s. The bottom line is that oral sex should be avoided if the giver has any sores or bleeding gums in the mouth. Even if he or she has just brushed or flossed their teeth, it can cause microscopic scratches in the lining of the mouth that makes one vulnerable to infection. Because of this, doctors advise the use of condoms for fellatio (flavored condoms are best) and the use of dental dams or kitchen plastic wrap) for cunnilingus.
If you love yourself, you must protect yourself. Ladies, there’s no reason why you can’t enjoy the eroticism of oral sex and practice safer sex at the same time. Even if you’re in a monogamous relationship, you’ll want to have some of the safer sex supplies around to help you add more pleasure, diversity and spontaneity to your oral sex adventures.
What STD’s can you get from oral sex?
The following list of STD’s can be contagious when it comes to performing and receiving oral sex on a person. While no one knows exactly what the degree of risk is, to ensure safeties make sure that no cuts or lesions are present in the mouth or on the genitals. Protect yourself and your partner by using a barrier to avoid the contact of bodily fluids that may result in catching a sexually transmitted disease.
Herpes, Genital Warts, Gonorrhea, Syphilis, Crabs, Hepatitis A, Hepatitis B, Hepatitis C, HIV and AIDS.
For more information about oral sex, check out LU’s certified course on Oral Sex.
If your lover gives you a hard time about wearing a condom, here are some good responses on why you need to use one.
Condom Talk:
Him: I don't think condoms are romantic.
Her: Just let me show you how romantic condoms can be.
Him: you don't trust me, do you?
Her: It's not a matter of trust; it's a matter of health.
Him: I don't like to use condoms.
Her: I don't have sex without them.
Him: I haven't had sex with anyone in years so I know I'm clean.
Her: Thanks for being so honest, but let's use one anyway.
Him: I can't feel anything when I wear a condom.
Her: Let me provide you with some extra stimulation.
Him: I know I'll lose my erection by the time I get it on.
Her: Here, let me put it on for you with my mouth.
Him: I'm only going to use a condom this once.
Her: Once is all it takes.
Him: Sorry, I don't have one.
Her: That's ok. I do.
Him: How come you have condoms on you? Did you plan to have sex with me?
Her: I made sure I had some because I really care about you.
Him: Forget it. I'm not going to use a condom.
Her: Fine. Then let's not have sex until we can work out our differences
Sex Check 101
Love U is proud to have this must see video for anyone who is sexually active in the Free Access area of www.loveologyuniversity.com
Watch Dr. Sharon Mitchell and Dr. Patrick Hernadez-Kline take you through some basic safe sex practices with the definitions of STD symptoms, tests and treatment options for Chlamydia, Bacterial Vaginosis, Staph Infection, Herpes, Gonorrhea, Syphilis, Hepatitis, A,B,C, HIV and AIDS.Click here to proceed to Sex Check 101.
Facts about STD’s
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65 million of people living in the US with STD
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15 million of new STD cases each year
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2/3 of all STD's accrues in people 25 yrs of age or younger
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1 in 4 new STD's accrues in teenagers
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cervical cancer in women is linked to HPV
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doctors are required to report newly diagnosed cases of gonorrhea, syphilis, Chlamydia and hepatitis B to state health departments and the CDC
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1 in 4 Americans have genital herpes, 80% of those with herpes are unaware they have it
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at least 1 in 4 Americans will contract an STD at some point in their lives
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15% of all infertile American women are infertile because of tubal damage caused by untreated STD
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12% of all infertile American men are infertile because of inflammation of the testicles and sterility caused by untreated STD
Source: Sexually Transmitted Disease Guide – Online Version
STI Resource Center Hotline
ASHA's STI Resource Center Hotline
1-800-227-8922
The STI Resource Center Hotline is a program of the American Social Health Association (ASHA) that provides information, materials and referrals to anyone concerned about sexually transmitted infections (STI). Health Communication Specialists are on staff to answer STI questions on such topics as transmission, risk reduction, prevention, testing and treatment. The service receives more than 180,000 calls a year and is not supported by state or federal funds, but by donations from foundations, corporations and individuals such as you.
The Hotline is open from 9:00 am to 6:00 pm, Eastern Time, Monday through Friday.
“Learn to Love Latex and have a condom fashion show with your lover?
Dr. Ava
