Playfully referred to as the “great-spot,” the “glory-spot” and the “go-ahead-spot,” the G-spot area was first identified by gynecologist Ernest Grafenberg who published results about sexual pleasure being derived from the urethra.  The G-spot area is located inside the woman’s vagina, about a third of the way in-between the vaginal opening and the cervix. It’s somewhere between 1.5 to 3 inches inside the vagina on the upper wall so imagine a small clock inside the vagina and you’ll find the G-spot between 11 and 1 o'clock (with 12:00 pointing towards the navel).

It has a ridged texture to it and responds to gentle stroking.  The G-spot is also known as the female prostate gland, and unlike the male prostate gland, which has only two ducts, the G-spot has over 32 much smaller ducts.  In many women, once properly stimulated, the G-spot can provide a very powerful orgasm. 

Some women claim that stimulation of the G-spot can produce a longer, deeper, more powerful orgasm than a clitoral orgasm.  The clitoral orgasm is felt like a release of tension in the genitals while the G-spot orgasm is felt throughout the body with more physical and emotional release.  The G-spot also requires slower stimulation than the clitoris. 

The woman should probably empty her bladder before beginning, especially since stimulation of the G-spot often creates the sensation of having to urinate.  It’s probably ideal for her to lie on her back with her pelvis raised by a pillow as well.  Put your thumb on her pelvic mound or clitoris and insert your middle or forefinger inside her vagina, palm up, in a “come hither” motion.  Pay close attention and monitor the feelings in your fingers while searching for the G-spot.  Push gently on the outer third of the vagina’s top region, between the vaginal opening and the cervix.  When you touch a small, ridged patch area, your partner may feel sensitive, as if she needs to urinate.  If her bladder is empty, the sensitive feeling will pass and be replaced with intense, pleasurable feelings.  For more pressure, use any combination of the other fingers.  Touch her with long, linear strokes creating an energetic circuit between your thumb and your finger to stimulate the G-spot.  Alternatively, pretend your fingers are a “windshield wiper” and stimulate the G-spot moving your fingers from side to side.  Now put your thumb above the pubic bone with your fingers inside the vagina to stimulate the G-spot from inside and out simultaneously.  Tap the G-spot area with your fingers toward her navel in pulsating motions.  Ask her to tell you which movements please her most and to share her feelings of anticipation and pleasure.  Beforehand, she might say, “I’m concerned that it might hurt.”  During, “It feels strange.”  Or, “Now it feels very intense.”  She might say, “I think I have to go to the bathroom.”  Or, “That feels so good—don’t stop!”  Afterwards, ask her if she would like to try it again—not necessarily immediately, of course.  But, you understand my point.  Check in with her to find out what she thought of the experience.  It’s also interesting to note that many women have reported they have difficulty locating and stimulating the G-spot by themselves, but they have no difficulty identifying the erotic sensation when a partner stimulates the spot.  The G-spot can also be reached by using a specially designed vibrator. G-spot stimulation may also produce an ejaculation—an expulsion of milky looking fluid, this is natural and some women ejaculated a small amount while others ejaculate a lot.

There are some lovemaking positions that are conducive to G-spot stimulation. Keeping the G-spot in mind, an interesting alternative to the missionary position is for the woman to rest her feet on her lover’s shoulders.  This allows for maximum stimulation of the back wall of the vagina and thus potential stimulation of the G-spot.  The alternative to the woman on top position is for the woman to face away from her partner.  This way, the whole of the vagina is stimulated, and the woman herself can decide where she wants to receive maximum stimulation.  The rear entry alternative is for the man to lay the whole of his body along the woman’s.  In this position, the entire vagina is stimulated, but attention is concentrated on the upper part of the front wall, which means there is relatively good stimulation of the G-spot.  An alternative to the standing position is for you and your partner to face one another—the woman lying back.  In this position, the front wall of the vagina is stimulated, and good contact with the G-spot is made.  Also, remember to check in with your partner in order to learn her particular “dos” and “don’ts” so that you can maximize her “oohs” and “aahs.” 
 

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